
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

deleted_user
I was talking to my brother yesterday. He married his high school sweetheart when he was 16. After 24 yrs of marriage, she tells him she don't want to be married anymore and leaves. He said that he hurt so deeply, just like us. Said he thought he was gonna die,from the pain of the broken heart and love for her. I KNOW to well, that feeling. I asked him, when did that horrible pain go away. His answer was simple. "When I met someone else". He wasn't looking for anyone. That gave me something to really think about. So are we hurting because we love the person so much or is the pain because we lost someone we loved and we are alone? I may be more complicated than that. I think I hurt mostly because I loved him so much and he obviously don't return my love. All I know is I want this pain to leave me. To help speed the process, I am going to be open to LOOK for someone to HELP me overcome this pain. Any wonderful single men here in their 40s or 50s from NC? lol Love to you all :)
Posts You May Be Interested In
-
theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
-
I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
For me I don't think the pain will ever "Go Away" but I do think it has and will lessen more and more. Eventually it will only hit on times like our anniversary, or our childrens birthday.
Now, that being said, you clearly need to realize which of the two you are and filling the void of a broken heart to rush to another relationship and say, it don't last, your heart will break 100 times worse than your 20+yr. long term relationship. So, leaving you with, don't pursue another person until you have healed your broken heart on your own.
I choose to do for me and me only. That and my children and family and friends haev all got to see the real me, and not the one who I was.
I am not looking and if another passes my eye and is lucky enough to snag me, let her try, going to be a long road, believe me the lonliness subsides enveloping things in your life that are important to you, and no, not another person...
Loneliness.
You can contact me and talk if you want. It always helps to just share stories and gain strength by just talking about how you feel. and to realize you are not alone.