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Ok i'm just curious.
How many of your EX's/STBX's have absolutely lost their friggin' minds since the break up?
I don't just mean the stupid little tactics. I mean like live changing, you can't recognize this person type stuff.
How many of your EX's/STBX's have absolutely lost their friggin' minds since the break up?
I don't just mean the stupid little tactics. I mean like live changing, you can't recognize this person type stuff.
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Ex gained a bunch of weight, but other than that...I don't know because I don't talk to him....we work for the same company so I have seen him a few times....that's how I know he gained about 30+ lbs....
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Mine was a freakin' Loon years ago...any changes could ONLY have been for the Better...
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Mine did! He was extremely money hungry (still is to a degree when it comes to our settlement and his CS)...the only thing that he spent money on was his farm. Now when I see him in court, he's wearing designer clothes! He spent over $30,000 within a month of our separation. Had a fit when I wasn't working...was staying home with our infant and toddler. Now his girlfriend has NO intentions of working ever and tells him...and he says NOTHING. He was always devious but the money thing is new...he's become a spender.
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Mine made changes I couldn't handle while we were together..as for now..he's on his own and I moved 1000 miles away. That should tell you something right there
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I wouldn't know lately. Haven't seen or heard from him since he picked up his shi+. But, prior to that....TOTAL STRANGER!
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Oh, gosh, he is off his rocker! Left me for a married whore with lovers, moved to a remote adn poor county adn took up space in a trailer park (I'm sure it's nice adn my gramma always lived in one, not passing judgment now) adn lives way out in teh forested hills somewhre where teh sun doesn't shine refularly and bought a car that we both discussed recently and thought was ugly! he is allowing himself to be "stored" by his married whore in teh trailer park 18 miles outside fo the town she adn her husband are moving to. Me adn sybx should be bankrupt before long after working ahrd to acheive a comfortable lifestyle. he abandoned his little dog for more than a month and a half right after she had major surgery, finally took her back in, I worry about her. Wlaked out on teh other pets, but that is not as big a deal to them I don't think. he was a ghost last time I saw him, reckon he is a stranger now!
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Mine suddenly decided she was a cowgirl. Started taking vitamins and drinking water, guess she had to get back into shape for the 1st husband. When I stopped letting her have control of me she really went over the edge. Totally different person. Blows money like it's water (but yet can't pay her own rent).
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I am NOT your ex-wife. You are delusional! ;)
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Hey NM..thats HER problem! Me I turned into some sort of tightwad since the breakup..make up...who needs it..there's sunscreen. Fancy hair..who needs it..that's why I have ball caps! Odd thing is...I'm finding that I'm carrying it over to my life in other ways...a guy doesn't have to take me out to a fancy place for dinner. The fishwich sandwich is pretty good if your with the right company!
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Maybe you're just my next ex-wife and didn't know it yet :P
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Mine is out of control. Like a Quentin Terentino movie, I learned a WHOLE shitload of stuff last night.. I am in shock. Its crazy, I will never trust another woman again, there is just no way I will be able too
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I said that once too Lost. Don't generalize.
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You tease me so. You'll make me cry.
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Hey Lost....some of us women ARE trustworthy...don't let your ex give us all a bad name!
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Just like some of us men are. Hope somebody remembers that in the next meeting of the "she woman man haters club".
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