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keepthehope
Well I tried to keep the hope as long as I could and she says she wants to see other people this is part of her email....
If you are saying you want a divorce if I am going to be with someone else then we can do that. It seems to be a lot of paperwork and hassle, but if that is what you want to do at this point I will sign whatever you want, but ???
What the hell, I fought to save this marriage and I kept the hope and belief that she would reconsider but it is a no. I can't be married to someone who wants to play the field. And the lame excuse that it is to much work to file is BS. What happen to the sanctity of marriage.
I now feel I have to file for a divorce I didnt want.
This sucks I hurt so bad right now, I left work early cuase I was crying and I cried all the way home.
If you are saying you want a divorce if I am going to be with someone else then we can do that. It seems to be a lot of paperwork and hassle, but if that is what you want to do at this point I will sign whatever you want, but ???
What the hell, I fought to save this marriage and I kept the hope and belief that she would reconsider but it is a no. I can't be married to someone who wants to play the field. And the lame excuse that it is to much work to file is BS. What happen to the sanctity of marriage.
I now feel I have to file for a divorce I didnt want.
This sucks I hurt so bad right now, I left work early cuase I was crying and I cried all the way home.
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To say she will sign anything ... It seems she has made up her mind and is determined to sleep with someone else by what you posted.
You probably dont want to hear that it will take time to get over, and try to move on. I didnt want to hear those things, I just wanted it to work out. But sometimes, people just arent on the same page with each other. I have questioned marriage lately as I wonder why so many people just cant stay faithful, stay together, etc. There is no good answer really. But I do know, you both have to want it, and if she is trying to force you in to letting her sleep with someone else, otherwise she will be gone, and that is not something you are Ok with, then you got a tough decision. But I think you know the right decision.
Doesnt mean it will be easy, but all in all, you have to remember to respect yourself, your values, and morals. If she can do this, she obviously does not treasure the same values you have, especially when it comes to marriage.
If you need anything, or jsut want to vent, feel free to email or PM me.
Am I being stupid in wanting to be clear for myself on this.
Why is it that we have to do the work and accept the hurt while they move on?