Breakups & Divorce Support Group

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Okay...I am at the point that I just cant allow my life to go down hill anymore. I have lost myself, and I have no idea how to find who I was inside. Do you have any suggestions?!
deleted_user
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what do you enjoy doing? or what have you always wanted to do? do it and throw yourself in it.
I found that filling up my time helped me not think about all the BS.
good luck
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Go to the Library and pick up Dr. Wayne Dyer's books, beginning with the Eroneous Zones. I guarantee with an open mind and quiet time, you will find yourself.
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Try to learn to love yourself and accept yourself for who you are. Try to be your own best friend.
keepthehope
keepthehope
write, write, write I am amazed about the things I found out about myself when I allow myself to come out in writing. I learn from myself when I give advice to others. Talk to people. The tough times for me is when I am alone. Thus I stay on DS do get more strength and knowledge in myself.
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deleted_user
I know what you mean.
I don't enjoy much anymore but I do force myself to do the things I used to enjoy. I hear that that helps and eventually you will enjoy them again
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I had the same problem. So I meditated every night or morning on myself, and went back before I married STBX and pieced together what it was I really liked to do and who I was. It's a slow process but well worth the results for me.
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So it is a slow process. today I put batteries in my camera and took some fall pictures and pictures of me and my grandson. took me 1 week to get the batteries and 1 week to take a picture. healing and grieving are new to me but the one thing I have learned is to be patient with me.
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