Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
If you know my story I am raising my three kids and my STBX walked out on all of us. In my state I can get her out of my house.
She has been at the house about 14 days in the last 5 months. She is dragging her feet on this divorce because she does not want to pay her own way. Everything we have ever owned is in my name. Including the house and cars.
Everyone is happy when she is gone.
On the 1st, she walks into my office and tells me she no longer has a job. She wanted me to be upset for her. Please understand I had put this women through school and she has three degree's. She got a job at a restaurant as a hostess. Not saying thats not honest work, just doesn't want to do anything. She got fired for poor job performance. Really how hard can that job be?
Hello, How many to your party today? The wait will be about 20 minute. Please follow me to your table!
How F'ing hard is that?
I am pissed now because she thinks she is going to sit around here and act like it's a hotel. She needs to get out!
Thanks for letting me vent.
She has been at the house about 14 days in the last 5 months. She is dragging her feet on this divorce because she does not want to pay her own way. Everything we have ever owned is in my name. Including the house and cars.
Everyone is happy when she is gone.
On the 1st, she walks into my office and tells me she no longer has a job. She wanted me to be upset for her. Please understand I had put this women through school and she has three degree's. She got a job at a restaurant as a hostess. Not saying thats not honest work, just doesn't want to do anything. She got fired for poor job performance. Really how hard can that job be?
Hello, How many to your party today? The wait will be about 20 minute. Please follow me to your table!
How F'ing hard is that?
I am pissed now because she thinks she is going to sit around here and act like it's a hotel. She needs to get out!
Thanks for letting me vent.
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I gave my 2 week notice last Friday 13th. Now to join you fine people in a life of leisure and nothing else to do but to look out for myself....is it just me or does that sound pretty boring? My goal was to live to retire and I guess having to take early retirement because of health reasons wasn't exactly the way I had planned things. I just can't stay in that building that is reeking mildew...
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
I really think she is enjoying hurting this family.
so 15 days in 4 months>? keep a detailed log showing that while she is "nominally" livign at your home she is, in fact livign elsewhere.
the Judge should see that for what it is.
My ex won't leave either, doesn't have a job, isn't paying for $hit... and I don't have the money to evict him or hire an attorney to get him out of the place.
What is it with people like that who get fired for poor performance at the most BASIC of jobs. My ex was a cashier at Home Depot for 10 YEARS!!! Come ON!! I was a cashier at Lowes for SIX months and couldn't take the total a$$ boredom!
She is an asshole.
I'm sorry that you can't get her out of your house.
In this day and age, it shouldn't be that much harder for you as the father versus what looks to be a deadbeat mother. Shame on her. (I sound like my mother....)
Tommy, I truly feel for you. I had to support mine as well until everything was figured out, which didn't provide for much help anyway. Persevere. In the end, it's for you and the kids and you are doing right.
You really need to call your lawyer; and call them everyday or twice a day at least until you get someone calling you back.