Hi Everyone. Im new here and this is my first post. Im needing some advice. I have primary physical cust. of my 9 yo son. But he has bit by bit been staying with my ex more. Thankfully we have gotten to a point in our divorce to be flexible and accomadating for our boy. He has still been paying child support although last year he had it reviewed as he had changed jobs and it did get reduced. Last night he told me he is having child support recovery send me the papers to sign stating he no longer needs to pay me child support. He told me if I dont sign them he will take me to court to get custody of our son and assumes he has a strong case since he has been staying so much with him anyway. Given the choice my son would choose to live with his dad. He is thee \"Disneyland Dad\". But I dont want to lose my son or-- very honestly, the financial support. (That sounds terrible but you know how much that is counted into your budget.) What would all of you do in this situation? How do you step back and consider whats in the best interest of your child and not let your own selfishness interfere?
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