
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
To answer your question... for the longest time it was my kids that kept me going, but eventually it became "me" as the reason to keep going. I've learned that I deserve to be happy and work everyday to make that happen. I don't have a man in my life right now, and have learned I don't need one. Not that it wouldn't be nice, but I focus on me, my job, my kids, my community.
Hope that helps.
First, let me tell you you've come to a good place. Although, my situation differs from yours a bit, the things that gets me through the day are
1. Friends & family
2. Knowledge that I no longer have to endure my stbxs mental abuse
3. DS
What kept me going in the beginning was anger. I am hoping that is all spent now. As of today, my friends here on DS and outside in the 'real' world are the reason I am relatively sane!
Take care of yourself. You may have been abandoned by someone insensitive. But, you can NEVER be replaced. There is NO other you and you have value and worth. His loss for not appreciating that. The fact that he has been involved with 2 women since the divorce tells the tale....he's still looking for what he never knew he had.
We are here to cry with you. We love to laugh. You should engage in some of our polls. The polls asks questions that focus on YOU. Wha tyou want, what you like, what you would do? And we have our "socials" most of the time those are our dirty bird conversation. Feel free to join. We have those because sex and sexuality is a huge part of marriage andafter marriage life.
Again I want to welcome you. Sorry, you have to be here.