Hi, this is my 1st time writing anything. I just signed up. Here is my situation. My husband and I have been together for over 14 years. We have had so many ups and downs and always worked through them. I just found out that he went to an attorney to divorce me and get custody of the kids. He told me everything that his attorney supposedly said to him. Now after lie after lie that he has told me over the past few weeks, he says that if I give 110% of me to him and basically he can not give me anything than by the summer time he will let me know if he wants to stay. He has always had control. Is this normal? Do people that want to leave their spose so bad give options like that. I dont want him and the kids to leave, but i dont want to be threataned and have to do what he says while he does nothing. and will make up his mind in a few months. I know once someone stops loving you there is not much you can do and I dont plan on stopping him if that is what he wants. Has anyone been through this type of situation?
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