This will all sound very immature, I'm the first to admit it is, but I need advise. I feel sick... As I posted earlier in the week my ex has been 'joking' about him and my ex best friend, with whom he had an emotional affair, which almost escalated. He kept asking what I would do if they got together etc etc. Well after trying to ignore it, and eventually asking him to stop, he was still doing this so I retaliated and asked him what he would do if I got together with someone we both know has a 'thing' for me. Everytime he made a dig at me, I did it back. It obviously upset him. He kept checking my mobile. Today he went into a shop, leaving me in the car with his phone. I shouldn't have, but I checkeed it. There were texts, under the name of my 'best friend', saying 'Love You' and other information that was accurate, like saying when she is back from holiday, and that her phone ran out of battery (she told me all of this andI'd mentioned it to him). When I asked him what was going on, he said he got his friend to text him it, and saved his number as 'Jenni', because he knew I'd look at his phone and he wanted to get back at me because I'd made him jealous. He swore on our son's life it wasn't really from Jenni, this is the only thing that makes second guess, because otherwise his story just does not make sense. There are in-accuracies, would he really have a whole 'conversation' via text with his friend, just to get at me?! And how would his friend know all of these details? I need to know what is going on, because I will cut all contact with both my ex and 'best friend' if something has gone on, as they would have lied about it. I asked him if I could call the number if it was really his friend, he wouldn't let me. He also won't let me read the messages again (I can't remember a lot of the content as I was so shocked and upset). I feel sick, I just want to know, I can't get it out of my head. What do I do? He keeps swearing it was all a joke.
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