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Long lonely nights

deleted_user
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I have been divorced for only a short period of time. All the proceedings started in Feb. and she was finally told by the Judge that she had to move out in October. Now that all is done there are great periods of feeling all alone.
I feel frustrated and empty at times. It is hard to put it into words. Any advice?
TSand
TSand
Here is some advice, keep doing what you just did. Post here and we will help each other. There is a great group of people who truly understand what you are feeling and together we are stronger than we are alone. We don't have to do this by ourselves. We can rely on each other to pick each other up when we are down. We have got your back!
deleted_user
deleted_user
TSand is right! We have all been there or are there right now! We will be here for you, however, I must warn you we are addicting!
Hugs!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Get out! Call your friends, join a club, do anything to get you out.
I joined an on-line dating website ($100 so no riffraff) and already I'm talking to different women, as in women not too far from me. I have a different focus now. Before I used to focus on the past - wrong. Whether it is this or something else, get a new focus.
deleted_user
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I would make good friends on here. I'm talking really good ones. Ones you can perhaps IM with, people who have been through the hell that you have. If you ever need a shoulder to cry on, please dont hesitate to look me up!
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Try to hang with positive people and friends. It makes a HUGE difference what you'll feel.
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