I have been divorced now for 8 months. My ex and his fling now live together and our kids spend alternating weekends with me or them- living with me. I try my best as a part time working Mum. My counsellor says too hard...I just feel like my life has been taken from me. All i dreamed about was to be with the right man in a happy family setting. We were happy ( i thought). i find myself so lonely even when i have the kids around ( 7/9) i feel that i think about their life all the time and expect the kids to want to be there too. They say not as i am the best mum in the world and i do lots of things with them and they love being here and with Dad. I am such a sociable, friendly person mostly but find it so hard not to have my ex around. He wasnt the best, i now know but i suppose i just miss having someone. i eat and drink occasionally to try and make myself better, but i still feel really lost. please give me some hope xx
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