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LMAO

deleted_user
deleted_user
We had our day and court today and I wanted to laugh out loud. My stupid ex did not legally have me served. Therefore if she doesn't provide proof that she had me served they are dismissing the case. So, she will have to pay another 177 dollars to refile or I can file. I am a little upset bc I wanted it to be over. She still doesn't let me talk or see my son like I want. I haven't seen him before october. She only lets me talk to him maybe once a week for 5 minutes if I am lucky. So, no more mr nice guy. I am getting a lawyer and socking it to her bc she had the affair. I figure what's the use to be nice if she doesn't even let me see my son.
ChiTownBear
ChiTownBear
you need to do what you need to do. I would get it started in motion based on everything I read.

Sorry you havent seen your son. I think it is juvenille to use things like that against someone.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Sometimes you need to use what you can. I have just had to threaten my wife about divulging info that could see her whole career of 10 years go up in smoke if she didn't stop being a bitch. Sometimes you have to play a little rough. Nice guys quite often come in last
deleted_user
deleted_user
Yeah, I am going to get a day off next week and go and file a temporary custody motion. So I can see my son.
ChiTownBear
ChiTownBear
Good for you.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I can't imagine that she has any legal recourse to keep your son away from you. It may be that you have be a bit ugly...and let her know it didn't have to be this way. I'm sure your son misses you as much as you miss him. GOod luck, let us know what happens
deleted_user
deleted_user
I was letting my STBX see our son and he filed for an expidited hearing claiming that i hadn't let him see our son even though I have witnesses and documentation. He was granted the epidited custody hearing for the time that he knows I am suppose to be in Florida with my kids so he dosen't care if he hurst our child as long as he hurts me and what he claims is a complete pack of lies. Just make sure you are honest about everything so she can't screw you more. My Lawyer suggested writeing everything down everyday even if nothing happens keep a journal.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Yes, I am keeping a journal.
deleted_user
deleted_user
FUCK YEAH, get an attorney.

The stbx's, except in rare, rare instances, are no longer our friends....

Good luck
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm sorry she is holding you from your son... that is the worst part of all this sh*t!! What a complete mess... I'm really sorry... :(
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