Do any of you still live fairly close to your stbx/ex? I moved out into an apartment fairly close by my old house. I like the area where I live and I'm used to shopping in all the same places, etc. We both work in a similar area and know a few people in common through work. It's kind of weird. I've thought of moving farther away but every thing I need is right here. I'm a little nervous that I'll see his car or run into him at the grocery store. And what about friends you have in common? So far, all the friends have been supportive of me and are very disappointed in him. But being around our old friends is a reminder of the past.... Does this get better with time? We don't have kids together so after the divorce is final, we don't need to have any contact again, ever.
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