Okay here is my story, I had a big break up with my ex-wife at the end of July of 06, we had problems and she ended up cheating on me in the end, when we were supposed to be working it out. Well, I dated on and off until met someone special in Nov of 07, it started off slow but she was very persistent and had separated from her husband (who was abusive)in May of 07. She told me she loved and wanted to be with me and everything was great. About three months we move in together and everything was great. Then she started not answering her phone when I called and she stopped coming home some night stating she worked late and stayed with a friend from work. I did everything I could to try and make it work, and I thought I treated her great. We fought over this and I asked her if she was cheating on me and she said she wasnt she would never do that. Well i work swing shift and every night I worked she would be about with her friends, we came close to breaking up a couple of times but never did. Well early today I called her parents house looking for her(she wasnt answering her phone)her mom tells me she went to a pizza place. I stopped by to talk to her before i went to work and she was there with someone else and his kids. There are lot more details to the story but that is the gist of it. It seems just like when u find someone special again, it all goes to hell. I spent another 9months of my life on someone and I feel cheated and betrayed. I'm a decent looking guy, I dont drink, dont do drugs,I love my child and take care of her the best i can when i have her, and when im dating someone, that person is number one in my life and i let them know it, my question is where am I going wrong? Why does this keep happening?
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