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Has anyone that smokes notice they are smoking alot more? Since my wife has told me that she will not continue with me, I have smoke at least a half a pack a day MORE than my normal 3/4 a pack to a pack a day......i hate separations
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maybe it's the perfect time to quit :)
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deleted_user
Yea but then I quit.. why let her beat me.. Been smoke free for 10 days now. I say hooah.
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deleted_user
I'm up from 2 packs to 3 a day since this started. My counselor even warned me against trying to quit right now. She thinks I have enough on my plate.
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I either smoke a lot when total stress comes on and as it gets liter I smoke less I think it is all a mind thing one of these days I will quite
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awesome lost and torn!!! keep it up!!!
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I absolutley have, I had even quit for 8 months fore STBX left. I even have smoked in front of my children and they never knew I was a social smoker. It has gotten better and I'm smoking less than when he first left. I'm hoping to quit again soon but now I'm using it as a crutch.
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Yeah, Ive definitely been smoking a lot more....and Im not liking it, but I feel like now isnt the right time to quit. When im stressed out this bad I gotta have my smokes.
chowgirl
chowgirl
Surprisingly, I'm smoking less, but that's probably because I vowed not to smoke in my new house, and it's flippin' cold out!
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I was a pack a day smoker before she left. Then I went to 2 and a half. Very easy to do. It takes a while to calm back down to where you were.
Keep busy and it helps to combat the cravings...
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I've been surprised that I haven't relapsed. I was a smoker until up to about 5 months ago, and I have many of times felt like smoking a pack.
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Yep. Smoking about 1/2 pack a day more than usual. I'm setting my quit date for Jan 1!
TSand
TSand
I haven't had a cigarette since the whole mess with my sbtx started. It will be four years next month. I am proud of myself. I heard about this new medication for stopping smoking that works really well, don't remember the name though. Look it up.
deleted_user
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I think you are talking about chantix.
I am smoking more than before I left my ex... but I am spending more time on my computer... so ... the two kind of go together for me. I am looking to quit Jan 1.
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lol umm not me I smoke more now.. I guess with the ex and all and my grandfather. Its not a good time right now.....
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Man would I love to quit by Jan 1st or before....cigarette taxes are going up here the beginnig of the year.
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