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Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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deleted_user 11/05/2007

I was on the Dr.Phil website and although I feel that he is so anti-divorce if you have kids, I was pleasantly surprised by what he wrote!

If you are feeling like you need a "things to do" list to help you get through it, I SURE DO DAILY, this might help : )

http://www.drphil.com/articles/article/213

deleted_user 11/05/2007

I was very surprised at the site, I agree with just about everything he states.Thanks newme3 for the post

deleted_user 11/05/2007

Wow - I noticed two things from this:

1. Phil isn't a TOTAL idiot

2. I'm moving along in the right direction, at least according to him

Thanks for posting this

Jlhorlando 11/05/2007

Thanks for the post. I am happy to see some practical advice for those of us who have accepted where we are and need to find a way to make a go of our new lives.

LarryLDN 11/05/2007

good points.

Find your authentic self
Although you may no longer be one half of a couple, you are still 100 percent the person who you are. Find that person again.

LarryLDN 11/05/2007

Get out of denial
Ask yourself: Do you really want this marriage, or are you hanging onto it out of fear? If being alone is a scarier thought than staying in a broken marriage, you're letting fear make your decisions. Are you mourning the loss of what your marriage was, or what you thought marriage would be?

is that like Pink Floyd? Was it Love, or the Idea of Being in Love?

deleted_user 11/05/2007

wow - great info - thanks for sharing..you know all the great sites!

deleted_user 11/05/2007

Normally I can't stand Dr. Phil. But I have to say what he says this time makes alot of sense. Damn I hate being wrong about him! LOL. Thanks Newme3

deleted_user 11/05/2007

I used this to help me get through the initial hard time going through my separation/divorce. I think every little bit of advice can be good.

deleted_user 11/05/2007

Thanks for the post. Very helpful!!

DebbieC817 11/05/2007

THANK YOU!! That article was exactly what I needed to hear right now - it's wonderful!! I highly recommend it (and I'm not a Dr. Phil person either!!)

deleted_user 11/05/2007

Dr Phil might know his stuff but he busted my flashlight. By which I mean I realize now how little me and my wife have together and may have ever had. I realize I might wind up divorced with nothing more than some lessons, insight, and a cat. I spent a good portion of my morning looking at his website realizing how little me and my wife know about each other and how little we fulfill each other.

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