My husband has seriously negleted me for the past 8 years. No affection, No I love You, etc...I ended up having a 4 month affair before I finally came clean. My husband has forgiven me and wants to make our marriage work. I am still in love with the other guy, but not ready to commit to him either. My husband and I will be married 20 years in a few months and we have 2 teenage kids. I do not love my husband, but our pastor says if we work on it, the feelings should return in a few months. We have been through marriage counseling in the past, but it never helped. My husband has changed and is showing his affection, but now it just makes me feel sick!!! What is wrong with me!? Every day I feel so heartbroken! Its been about 3 weeks since I confessed and it is not getting any better.
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