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Letting Go

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I just recently was divorced, not by choice 2nd round. I am having the most difficult time letting go. This guy has lied to me, cheated on me, treated me like dirt, yet I know he still loves me and I love him. How do I just let everything go? To make things worse he is in texas and i am in indiana.
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check out the advice column. there's a book on there called "letting go" it will help you "let go".
distance first is the biggest thing to breaking free, whcih you ve' done
the second is getting things together for yourself. that'll help you trmendously.
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i don't mean to sound like a jerk, but lies, cheats, treats you like dirt, doesn't sound like the kind of love i know or would want. keep thinking of the lies, cheating and being treated like dirt, would you treat someone like that. start loving yourself and treat yourself like you would your bestfriend. you will make it through this.
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