Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
An angel walked through my door today. When she first came to my place of employment, I didn't know her and she didn't know me. We may have talked on the phone a few times, to schedule an appointment, but that was about it. She just happened to ask me how my day was...and I felt so comfortable with her, that I told her. I told her that my husband is an a******. She shared something with me...and I then I shared something with her. She gave me this website. So...here I am.
I'll be 39 on Friday...my husband just told me (again) yesterday that he doesn't love me. He's told me this several time, but yesterday was like he hit me with a brick. I finally get it now. The thing is...I can't afford to live on my own with my two kids. I guess I'll stick it out, for now, for the $$$. Not that he makes a lot...but it's enough that I don't have to kill myself to work full-time. I can work a schedule that is based around my kids. That is hard to find. I think he has cheated on me...more than once. I just have no proof. I am going with my gut. He has hardened my heart and turned me into an Ice Queen. He says we have nothing in common, yet he does nothing to help this. His latest thing is to take Karate...by himself. He's 42 and taking Karate three nights a week. Where do the kids and I fit in? We just don't.
I'll be 39 on Friday...my husband just told me (again) yesterday that he doesn't love me. He's told me this several time, but yesterday was like he hit me with a brick. I finally get it now. The thing is...I can't afford to live on my own with my two kids. I guess I'll stick it out, for now, for the $$$. Not that he makes a lot...but it's enough that I don't have to kill myself to work full-time. I can work a schedule that is based around my kids. That is hard to find. I think he has cheated on me...more than once. I just have no proof. I am going with my gut. He has hardened my heart and turned me into an Ice Queen. He says we have nothing in common, yet he does nothing to help this. His latest thing is to take Karate...by himself. He's 42 and taking Karate three nights a week. Where do the kids and I fit in? We just don't.
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
Not saying you have to, please don't get me wrong. Just trying to save you some headache.
You've come to the right place, most people here understand where you're coming from and offer sound advice.
All the best.
It's rough when you have to stay married for the money. Stick around and you'll figure how what the right way is to go.