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As many of you know.I am going through divorce.Recently my stbx did the following.Some History...
1.) Walked into my office and slapped me. (all because i refused to take her calls)
2.) Spent two weeks convincing me she was "pregnant".Than allowed me to listen as the dr told her she wasn't(3rd visit).promised to show me the positive blood test results(from the first 2 visits) and now convieniently refuses to do so "cause i don't have to prove anything to you."!
3.) Has bad mouthed me to my children( i heard her while talking to one of them)
4.) Has threatened to crucify me and make me spend the next ten yrs(one convo) or my lifetime..er to the day i die(another convo) making me pay.(emotionally,physically,and financially.All because i "left"!
5.) Has let me know that by Christmas she will be taking my kids(and my biological son 4yrs old) to Minnesota.No family,friends,or anything their.Just an avg job she could make the same money doing here.
SO HERE IS THE BIAS(IMO)...I call Legal Aid of Oklahoma. Guess what...since i'm not a minority,a female,or a senior citizen(they asked if i was any of them) i will have to wait because they are not "taking any new apps " at this time.I cannot afford an attorney thus why i was looking at this avenue.Once again the red-blooded american male gets SCREWED! PC take "you just fall between the cracks". _GRRRRR
_Savery1
1.) Walked into my office and slapped me. (all because i refused to take her calls)
2.) Spent two weeks convincing me she was "pregnant".Than allowed me to listen as the dr told her she wasn't(3rd visit).promised to show me the positive blood test results(from the first 2 visits) and now convieniently refuses to do so "cause i don't have to prove anything to you."!
3.) Has bad mouthed me to my children( i heard her while talking to one of them)
4.) Has threatened to crucify me and make me spend the next ten yrs(one convo) or my lifetime..er to the day i die(another convo) making me pay.(emotionally,physically,and financially.All because i "left"!
5.) Has let me know that by Christmas she will be taking my kids(and my biological son 4yrs old) to Minnesota.No family,friends,or anything their.Just an avg job she could make the same money doing here.
SO HERE IS THE BIAS(IMO)...I call Legal Aid of Oklahoma. Guess what...since i'm not a minority,a female,or a senior citizen(they asked if i was any of them) i will have to wait because they are not "taking any new apps " at this time.I cannot afford an attorney thus why i was looking at this avenue.Once again the red-blooded american male gets SCREWED! PC take "you just fall between the cracks". _GRRRRR
_Savery1
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
.... Marraige is going the way of the covered wagon quickly. Thousands of years there is an institution of marraige, and in 20 plus years of no fault it is wiped out. Will make for interesting history books some day.
Just another way to " make me pay"! Besides..she knows i CAN afford this option but not a reg attorney option(1800.00 retainer) thus allowing this to drag on and A) I might change my mind
b) Make me suffer and prevent me form "going on" with my life without her.
_Savery1
if you had hit her you'd still be in jail.
I should have my granny call.Shes' female,indian ,and elderly.Bet she gets right on through...."steamed"!!!