(((Hugs))) and Best Wishes.

Lost, I fear the Chatzy room has made you feel this way.

Though I hear your words, I think you need us more now than before. We will be here when you get back and best of luck with your soul searching.

don't step too far...you help more than you know. ur perspective as a man is important to us females. at least to this female it is...

peace brother...

honey, we're here when you need us. i truly hope that you will seek out your spirituality, i know you believe. turn it over and find the release you need. your going to make it. it's hard i know. but you have your faith. hang onto it. know there are people here that care for you deeply, i'm one of them. stay strong.

I don't post much, but I read a lot. I agree with pitbullmamma.

Lost, I think we joined about the same time, we have had some good talks. I want you to find some joy in life. I know it is such a hard place for you right now with how much you miss your little girl. You have added to the site, I have loved getting to know you and seeing the goodness in your heart. Don't go too far away. Know that there are those of us here for you.

I second pitbull and wistful.
We need you guys. Please don't go too far.
Best wishes.

Seems like this is another step in becoming reclusive...

However, you know where we're at when you need us...

Stay strong...

Lost, I understand COMPLETELY what you are going through. I truly am sorry for what you are enduring. We don't want you to leave DS, but if YOU think that is what you need to do, then that is our wish also. Just know, we are here for you on DS. ANYTIME you need us, WE WILL BE HERE!~! I haven't talked to you a whole lot, but the times I have, you have helped me out in many ways. I just hope that I have helped you out too. Just remember, WE LOVE YOU & look forward to seeing you back here SOON!~! Please "KEEP YOUR CHIN UP!~!" You are in our prayers & will be thinking about you!~!
YOU are a wonderful person! Do NOT ever forget, NOR doubt that!~!

Totally understand. I'm glad you let us know. Tami takes roll call & you would be in BIG trouble if you were abscent without advance notice.

Be cool L&T.

I gotta be real and say I think you have made real strides since your debut here a while back. I'm talking leaps and bounds. I dont see the desperation, i see a more confident, secure individual now who stands before me.

Good luck to you during your hiatus. And keep choosing to have a good day, every day. 90% of the battle is mental...

we will be here waiting for you buddy!

For what it's worth. I'm with you 1000%. I'm done

I wish you only the best TJ. (That's also my son's name and he's the same age!) It's a struggle, but it will get better. We all want it all and we all want it NOW! You have contributed alot to some of the threads and I always appreciate your perspective on things. Good Luck.

Sorry to see you go but I understand completely. I feel reclusive too right now. I deleted my journals here last night - thought about deleting more then decided to wait and see....

Good luck.