Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Hi, I finally got brave and made an appointment with a lawyer to discuss seperation and or divorce from my husband. Anything I should know? Anything I need to ask? Even though having taken this step is a weight off, I'm still so sad and heartbroken. I hope I can stick to this because right now my stomach is in my throat and I feel like I'm going to throw up.
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
Good luck!
My atty asked about debts and assets, be ready to answer those questions. If I wanted to sell something (like one of our cars) I needed to do it before I filed. Ask about that if you need to. Ask the atty which debts you're responsible for while this is in process and ask how to get the use of some of the assets you have together(house, car, etc) while this is pending. Ask about child or spousal support, how much and how often and ask about visitation. Ask about an order of protection if that is a concern. Ask what you can do about harassment, calls at all hours, etc.
Good Luck
I do hope you got yourself a shark btw. They do not waste time.. they get the job done.
list all your particulars for them...
type it all out for the lawyer.
your name, age, dob, occupation
his name, age, dob, occupation
date of marriage
kids, full names, age, dob
assets: home, cars, rv, property
debts: mortgage, credit cards, loans, line of credit, etc.
how much you need to support yourself
do you want custody of the children if they are young? how much do you need to support them?
do you want to keep the house?..
do you work?. are you able to support yourself?..
reason for breakup?
have you been living apart?.. give a date of the actual separation if you have it.
my lawyers ended up hiring me during my divorce...lol.. go in prepared.. and don't be offended by the hard talk... answer them honestly. Tell them what you want from them too.
Don't be greedy.. well that is my thinking.. unless you have special circumstances that makes you require money.