Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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deleted_user
deleted_user
i need to get a divorce. I am not living with my stbx. I dont want to "make it work".

what is the best way to do this quickly with little money.

no children
no homes
no cars
no estates

thanks
please dont judge you dont know the situation
deleted_user
deleted_user
14 is a little young to be thinking of a divorce...lol.

Just go to courthouse and file on your own. Should be no problem.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Did not know you could get married at that age! Sorry

Just file yourself like Zoot said, if you both agree on things, then should be done right away.
Seashells1
Seashells1
If you still need some help, look in your local newspaper. You may qualify for one of those $99.00 divorces. It's just the cost of someone doing and filing the paperwork.
deleted_user
deleted_user
where i live you can go down to the courthouse, pick up the instructions and download all the paperwork from the web. i didn't know this so i spent a few hundred to do something similar online. I don't think that anyone here would judge you. I am sure that no one desires to spend a ton of money on attorneys if they don't need to. best of luck. i got my paperwork finished about 6 months ago now, but for some weird reason i still can't bring myself to file.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I just went through the same thing. Go online and look at DivorceEZ.com. It only took one month and was very inexpensive.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I don't know the laws in your state. But I CAN and WILL tell you I was, too, married to an abuser. It feels so good to be free and abuse-free now for almost 11 months. My only regret is having put up with it for 8 years because I didn't know life could be so good like it is now.
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