Do what yo think is best. If you wear your rings--smile because you know it's praying on the mind of your ML. If you don't, then smile becuase you know your a free woman!

your attitude, your outlook are going to tell more then the rings. maybe without them you can show going together how far you guys have come. most wont notice. the ones that notice they are missing will be looking for that because they are aware. there are many reasons woman dont wear their rings. i bought a different ring that i wear. its a little more jazzy then a regular ring. heck i see so many types of rings i am sure to some they wouldnt get the difference. any rings laying around? be yourself and know you are a better you.

what do you WANT to do? do you FEEL like the rings mean something?

if they mean something to you, wear them. if not, don't. and if the ML has anything to say about it...my favorite response to my ex ML was...

you don't sleep in my bed and you don't pay my bills...I don't care what you think.

she hated that. hated me. my life is so much better without her!

I just want to wear them for the sheer fact that my engagement ring is beautiful, I've always loved it. And this is the type of event where we're gonna be all dressed up. And I'm not much of a jewelry person otherwise. But then I wonder if it's not opening a whole can of worms when after the party I take the ring back off again.
I hate that I'm making so much drama out of such a small thing, but I do tend to overanalyze ALOT!

Just wear them on your right hand.

That's a tough one....I think you should only wear them if you feel comfortable doing so.

If you're not emotionally prepared for the smart-ass comments or any comment from anyone at all good or bad, then don't wear your rings.

If you don't wanna send a message that you're still married don't wear the rings

Sure they might look nice, but in that case get the stones put on something else!

I feel weird without mine all the time, but I'm not willing to send any kinda message that I'm married to the ass that left me so I leave them home!

Are you still married? wear them, Divorced? Don't wear them?
Remember its not about you, but for a "happy new couple" Relax... enjoy the event.

Yes, we're still married. I've just been really unhappy lately, and he's not really trying to do anything to help that. It's all his family and his sisters friends that are coming. I just dont know if I should fake the "yea we're ok"...or have people ask..."well, where's YOUR ring".
Although, they'll gonna be asking me when my NEXT baby is coming, since my daughter is now 2, and she'll be there, making her presence MORE than obvious LOL!

Playing the part?.. what does that mean?..

you have not worn the rings in 6 months.. because 'your part' has been that of a separated woman who does not have a connection with the wedding rings.
It is the reality of where you are in YOUR LIFE right now. A statement of how you are feeling.

putting back the rings on to 'play the part' would be just that.. a facade, not the reality of the situation.

I lived a facade for over 10 years.. and it was very much a 'perfect couple' 'successful couple' 'happy family'... in reality so not true.

Be true to yourself.
The ring to me is a symbol of the Love he has for you.
If it is no longer that symbol.. then it is just jewelry... wear it on the other hand if you like the rings.
Or don't wear it... it is up to you. He means nothing to him apparently.

I am separated, so I still wear my rings. I would take them off when ever he got me angry then put them back on, then I scolded myself for such waivering... and just resolved to wear them until and if we get divorced. All couples have rough times so wearing your ring does not pledge everything is "peachy". I still feel if your married wear them, if your divorced definitley put them away. =) But what do I know, I just got back from therapy! =)