Ok, last night I spoke with my wife. Over the last 3 months, she has been very unsure as to what she wants to do...to be with me, or not be with me....that was her question. Well she had decided that she did not want to be with me, for she wanted her independence and ability to build her self-worth. She has been a military wife for the past 9 years. She decided that she wanted to go to back to the town we were living in before, because she had a good job and was very comfortable there. Well, last night I (very light-heartedly and as an idea) asked if she would be willing to stay married and work on things (to include commitment, faithfulness, etc.) while just being apart. I asked her to think about it and she said ok. If she comes back and says no, then it means she wants much more than what she said....right? Throughout the last 3 months, she has been saying that she is tired of being my shadow, while not being stable enough to progress her own life. She said she can not come back here, because she does not like it here. If she says no to this offer, then she REALLY just does not want our marriage. This is truly our last chance....at least I know I have done absolutely everything I can to make this work. Any thoughts?
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