Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Emotionally, this whole mess is starting to resemble being in Labor. Fine for a bit, to catch your breath, then Wham, it hits again.
I find my focal point, that peaceful place...hold onto it for dear life-then another pain comes and takes all focus away and I have to run searching for that special place once again.
People say it will end, but it is hard to see that sometimes. The outcome should be a Wonderful thing, but there is the chance of sadness.
I would love to be held, but that would bring the possibility of increased pain. Why doesn't it just stop?
Others have used Drugs or things to deaden pain, I have chosen to just go it straight through...Medicating might have helped, it's too late now, the course has been set.
Didn't mean to lash out at someone trying to help...I wish that they knew how much it hurt. Screaming is not an option, crying hurts more...
What is the difference here...
I find my focal point, that peaceful place...hold onto it for dear life-then another pain comes and takes all focus away and I have to run searching for that special place once again.
People say it will end, but it is hard to see that sometimes. The outcome should be a Wonderful thing, but there is the chance of sadness.
I would love to be held, but that would bring the possibility of increased pain. Why doesn't it just stop?
Others have used Drugs or things to deaden pain, I have chosen to just go it straight through...Medicating might have helped, it's too late now, the course has been set.
Didn't mean to lash out at someone trying to help...I wish that they knew how much it hurt. Screaming is not an option, crying hurts more...
What is the difference here...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
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I don't want him anymore. So long as he stays away-this is very easy to remember. My eyes are open.
It is when he comes here, invades my space, and talks without yelling that I fall apart. He knows this. He has used this for years.
This isn't about Love. It is about breaking a mind control game. I am fighting for my life. He didn't think that I would stand this long, and he is fighting harder, now.
Sorry...probably doesn't make a lot of sense. But, the man was convinced that he could push me to suicide. He really IS a Sociopath.
Now a bit over a year later, I have an episode now and then, usually associated with beiong somewhere that contains a good memory of "us", and I will just cry my eyes out like I did that very first day. And then it is gone, and I'm ok again.
It will just take time. Really. And numbing it with drugs or alcohol won't make it go away. It'll just postpone it. You will get through it, I promise!