Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
why would someone say they love you because your the mother of their children , then treat you like some imbasill. undermining you in front of them , and competing for their attention and love. and why would they think its right to be running to the neighbor across the street for support, who is also his ex girl from about 20 years ago and this was while we were in couseling. why is that ok? am i insecure?
the whole thing is, now i am really doubting whether my stbx ever did "love" me . anyone else?
the whole thing is, now i am really doubting whether my stbx ever did "love" me . anyone else?
Thriver
All that is wrong. Maybe he is not getting anything out of counseling. You should bring it up in counseling.
deleted_user
I hate to say this but maybe your stbx has no idea what love is and is incappable of really loving any one. This kind of person is soulless and selfish with very little room in their tiny little hearts for love. I hope you realize the problem is with him and not you.
deleted_user
we're not going to counseling now. we discont' going when he decided to try to con me into going to a mediator instead of our attorneys to proceed. he told me he'd "GIVE " me custody if i remain in the town i live in now but in an apartment where id pay for rent with all the alimony and c/s Hairbrain idea cause rents here are just as expensive as the 1550 dollar mortgage here.
MimiL
Well everyones definition of love is a little different...my thing is acceptable and unacceptable...if what he was doing bothered you and you let him know and he didnt care enough to stop doing it ...well than how much could you love someone and continue to do things that upset them? If you are insecure he made you that way....any outside attention when you are having trouble with each other is going to drive you batty...when you are tight you could care less. Maybe he should tell you what his definition of love is.
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