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Why is it that no matter what gender you are if you are kind and put your best foot forward your spouse or sinificant other doesn't rise to the occasion?
They look at your kindness as a weaknes and it makes you dispensible. It's funny that they don't want to reciprocate the kindness, but the negative things in the relationships are easily reciprocated.
It amazes me how many times people say they sacrificed and did everything they could for their SO and instead of getting the same kindness back they get their hearts broken. From reading the post it seems like the kinder you are the WORSE your story is.
Any thoughts....
They look at your kindness as a weaknes and it makes you dispensible. It's funny that they don't want to reciprocate the kindness, but the negative things in the relationships are easily reciprocated.
It amazes me how many times people say they sacrificed and did everything they could for their SO and instead of getting the same kindness back they get their hearts broken. From reading the post it seems like the kinder you are the WORSE your story is.
Any thoughts....
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Most people with "High Self Esteem"-translate to arrogant asses-were coddled as children, never disapproved of and had very nice lives.
Many of us "Kind Hearted" people have been kicked around a bit, starting very early. We know what pain is and do NOT wish to hurt another living being.
Unfortunately, we also tend to attract the bullies. They know that we will not fight back. We will back down.
I still don't ever want to be like THEM. But, I wouldn't want to Be one of them when one of Us finally has our fill.
Hoping my reward is in heaven for all I sacrificed!