I don't believe in Karma as a mystical power controlling destiny.

BUT

I do think that people's actions set them up, and people who use others and do bath things eventually run out of friends and get some of the treatment returned to them.

I'm hoping it all catches up with my STBX AFTER my kids move out, because I don't want them to get hurt in the process.

I fall to my knees every night and pray that he will be on the receiving end of all of the misery that he has caused me and my kids. He believes in Karma but unfortunately he also believes he has done nothing wrong at all.

ug... typos. I didn't mean 'do bath things', but rather 'do bad things' in my #1 reply above. I guess my mind is else-where today.

A bath sounds good though. With bubbles.... and those little bath beads that smell so nice?

I figured that bath=bad...haha, aromatherapy sounds wonderful! I'm not sure about karma, but I do know this, nothing nice will come out of infidelity. I'm positive when my daughter's are young women, they will lose some respect for their father over this. It will catch up to him...I hope.

I belive in Karma most definitely.. My daughters are noe 18 and 20 They told me after the ex left they respect him cause he's their father but they do not respect what he did to us.

I believe as Dave does....people's actions will set them up for consequences.
As for Karma and my ex.....well his actions have bitten him hard....really hard :(
He continuously makes really bad choices ( too many to list) and I am just glad ( and lucky) that I am not apart of it any more.
I go about my own life which is getting better all the time and that is all the energy I have left to concentrate on.

I don't wish any ill will on my stbx. I think he is in need of some self help if he is going to have a healthy relationship in the future and I'm not sure that'll happen so I'm sad about that.

I think the reason I won't wish anything bad for him is because instead of wanting revenge for what he did to me, I want to improve myself because of what I allowed to happen to me. I don't blame him. I blame me. My situation is probably completely different from yours though. Maybe instead of thinking about what could happen to him to make you feel better, you'd be more productive thinking about what you could do to better your future without him.

I believe and that is all I am going to say.

Pray for you...Lyrics.

I haven't been to church since I don't remember when
Things were going great 'til they fell apart again
So I listened to the preacher as he told me what to do
He said you cant go hating others who have done wrong to you.
Sometimes we get angry, but we must not condemn.
Let the good Lord do His job and you just pray for them.

I pray your brakes go out running down a hill
I pray a flowerpot falls from a window sill and knocks you in the head like I'd like to
I pray your birthday comes and nobody calls
I pray you're flying high when your engine stalls
I pray all your dreams never come true
Just know wherever you are honey, I pray for you

I'm really glad I found my way to church
'Cause I'm already feeling better and I thank God for the words.
( From: http://www.elyrics.net/read/j/jaron-&-the-long-road-to-love-lyrics/pray-for-you-lyrics.html )
Yeah I'm going take the high road,
And do what the preacher told me to do,
You keep messing up and I'll keep praying for you.

I pray your tire blows out at 110.
I pray you pass out drunk with your best friend and wake up with his and her tattoos.

I pray your brakes go out running down a hill.
I pray a flowerpot falls from a window sill and knocks you in the head like I'd like to.
I pray your birthday comes and nobody calls
I pray you're flying high when your engine stalls
I pray all your dreams never come true
Just know wherever you are, near or far, in your house or in your car,
wherever you are honey, I pray for you.
I pray for you

No, I don't believe in Karma, but I believe that a person's character reveals itself over time and that brings consequences. But I don't spend much time at all wishing that he receives "payback" for the things he did and failed to do when with me. I'm trying to concentrate on myself, healing, lifting my self-esteem, and attracting someone with better character the next time. My hope for myself (since we have no reason to stay connected) is that I reach the point where he isn't a factor in my state of mind or life.

I like that reply, TRYING! Good answer!

i agree with trying1 and dave's answer. and yes- a bubble bath is definitely in order. : ) xoxo

i have seen how my ex's meanness and cruelty have come back to haunt him, and i feel badly for him until he tries to blame it all on me...once again.
in the end, what he has gotten has been brought about by his own actions.
karma? i guess that's one name for it.

I'm with GSCH. Yes I beleive in Karma and thats all I'm saying except PAY BACK IS A BITCH BABY. Loved your prayer lvmy2kids roflmao.

i agree with a bath thing too for Rand R LOL , seriously though my ex has to learn how to treat people right... this will require a lot of soul searching for her and the drop of arrogance , pity nice girl but she holds herself back my bad morals and i dont think that's going to change anytime soon , so i believe Karma is a cause of action and reaction.