Hello, I have been married for 13 years and I have two beautiful children. I have been so unhappy for much of my married life. My husband, while he doesn't drink anymore, used to be a very mean alcoholic. He is also very controlling. I have wanted to leave for a very long time. I know that I am not in love with him anymore. I am so afraid to leave. Absolutley paralyzed. I don't want to hurt my kids, I am not sure I can support them on my own. I am afraid that he will neglect them out of the desire to hurt me. I don't know what to do. His family tells me I should go, my family tells me I should go. What is wrong with me? He tells me I don't have enough self esteem to leave. Maybe he's right, I come from divorce and I know how I felt. Please help me.
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