Ok I apologize ahead of time for this being a long post.Me and my ex dated for 3 years she has a son that was 4 months old when we got together so I am the only father he has ever known we broke up in may because her family did not like me and it just got to be to much to handle.Well a week ago she calls me and is telling me that her son my step son has been asking about me a lot basically every day well when we broke up she moved like 5 hours away so it is very hard for me to be able to see him and she doesn't want me to just talk to him on the phone. well we started talking again and we both still have very strong feelings for each other and we kinda talked about trying to work things out again I am worried that she just wants me back just because of my stepson and not that she wants to be with me. during our relationship we separated 3 or 4 times and every time it was because of her family mainly her mother. I love my stepson more than anything in this world and I do still love her with all my heart but I don't know if I can put myself through another mess. when its just me her and my stepson everything is great we don't fight and we both agree that it feels right in our hearts when we are together but when her mom starts it causes sooooo much stress and tension is like we cant just live our lives. her mom has a lot of emotional problems she is married to a very abusive person both mentally and psychical he is a alcoholic and smokes pot like its a cigarette. her mom has attached herself to my ex and gets very jealous when she is happy or if someone is taking time away from her she also hates the fact that our son calls me daddy.her mom is very abusive mentally to my ex I cant even begin to say the things her mom has said and done to her all I can say is that it is horrible. I really do love both of them and I want to be with them the rest of my life but I don't know if I am getting myself back into a mess or what. I did tell her that yes I do want to be with her and our son more than I can say but I really don't want to get myself into a position to where I get hurt again. Any advice or ideas would be great and very helpful. If you need any more information or want to know anything that may help please feel free to hit me up. Thanks in advance......
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