My husband and I have been married for over 4 years. We have 2 kids with another one on the way next summer. Dec 13th he told me he just wanted us to be friends. He says he needs to grow and not stay in a relationship where he is not growing as a person. So dating and getting more gfs is the solution for him. He already has started seeing his ex again and not to say dating others so soon. I know in the long run things will be fine and I will see happiness again. But I cant see that right now. How do people cope? I cant afford therapy. I tried to talk to my family but they are happy for me not being with him. It isnt helping the pain and hurt feelings i feel now. We still have to live together till I can get a place to live. Which will take some time because I haven't had to work for 3.5 years. In a way I feel he is rubbing my face is all his happiness when I hurt so bad. He is leaving love letters all over the house and spending our house payment and car payments on dating. I know he is a jerk but I still hurt and have feelings that he thinks I should just be as happy as him. It doesn't help being pregnant and having all this dumped on me. This didn't come as a complete shock. Four time this year he has asked girls out and got phone numbers but asked me to forgive. So I know splitting is for the best. But it shouldn't hurt this bad. I want to be as happy or half as happy as him.
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