Hi, I have been married 12 years and just found out my husband has been cheating. In the 12 years we were married I never had the desire to snoop in his stuff. A few months ago I started feeling something was not right so I checked his e-mails and sure enough he was talking to and seeing another woman. When I confronted him he told me he was just not in love with me anymore and could not keep living a lie. The problem is he wants a divorce and now I do too, however, he will not leave. He asked me to give him some time to get money together so he can get his own place, but he is not even trying to save any money. I don't think he is planning on ever leaving. Whenever I ask him what he wants he says a divorce. He says he is going to give me enough money to stay in our house and take care of our kids, but he needs to get money together so he can get his own place. I can't stand living like this. We have 3 kids and they don't even know anything is going on. I agreed to let him stay long enough to save money, but he would have to stop talking to other girls. I still catch him on the phone and e-mailing other girls. Right now financially I need his help. I also work late and need him to pick up my baby from the sitters. I don't know how to move forward without depending on him. HELP. I never thought something like this would happen to me.
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