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just had a thought...

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As I'm sitting here studying pharmacology I remember when I first sent in the paperwork to enter school....my husband said to me "you'll probably find some doctor and do away with me"....funny isn't it, how I WASN'T the one who cheated---even now almost 9 mths after seperation I can't even think about dating another guy yet he seems perfectly content w/o me in his life. Don't know what brought that about in my little ole brain...but anyways, thanks for listening to me ramble.
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hey,no prob!
GeocacherNY
GeocacherNY
ramble ramble ;)

funny how ironic at times things we've said or heard from stbx's are
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Often the one pointing the finger has three pointing back at them ;-)
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whenpigsfly- what are you studying? I need to go back to school too.
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lilsam---nursing, and loving it, wish i'd have done this 5 years ago!!!! (instead of getting my BS in psychology!!!)
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jlk---no kidding!!! just weird how things like that pop into my head out of nowhere
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Well then, find a doctor and do away with him ;)
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could you find me a doctor to ;)
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Ramble on....that's what we're here for...to listen to you ramble and get it out! Is it helping?
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I'm a physician assistant and my husband use to say that to me frequently when I was working. Little did I know he was the one who went wayward. But I gather that he still has some connection to me and would probably become a little jealous if I moved on. Always wanting me to wait in the wings. I'm hoping one day he will realize what he threw away. It may or maynot be too late. What I do now is for me and my children.
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STBX told me when I first discovered his addiction was that one of the reasons for the secrets was he was afraid I would divorce him if I found out. Instead he was the one who decided on the divorce; I asked him dozens of times to reconcile.
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Understand, ramble on.
Hey who knows maybe you will find yourself a sweet and caring doctor?
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it really is weird that you're doing something, anything, and thoughts of stbx comes to mind. Before I open my eyes in the morning and the last thing i do before I shut my eyes at night...think of my stbx..i hope that changes before too long...
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