My husband left in April so we have been separated for 4 months now (I have pposted before so some of you know my situation). We wanted to keep it quiet from family and friends as we were trying to work it out. From time to time I would ask him if anybody knew except his friend that he was renting the apartment from. He always said no when I would ask. His Mom doesn't even know to this day. A friend of mine just called me who is away camping with friends. A mutual friend of hers and my husbands was there - he happen to mention that he saw my husband recently in a bar and he knew that we were separated and that my husband is living in an apartment. He also made a comment to my friend like "he can't be trying to make his marriage work if he is out partying all the time" - I can't believe he is telling people and here I am trying to keep it quiet from everyone. That son of a bitch - is he out at bars bragging about his life? he should be embarassed! And this guy is really only an acquaintance that he said this to - so all of his friends probably know and I was nieve to think that he was keeping it quiet. I am livid right now and do not know how to approach this? We have not spoken since Wednesday. Where do I go from here????? Please help!!!!!!
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