well, i'd say it's time you speak to a lawyer, your children need someone looking out for them. if she has only seen this man once, and is considering moving in with him, she knows nothing about him. i'm sorry, but i would not allow my children to be put in this situation. it could be dangerous.

Sorry, what a shi**y thing to do. Take care of yourself now and be strong for your children.

O my goodness, that's scary. Does she know ANYTHING about him? I can't imagine she does. She needs evaluated.

Call the lawyer.
Today.

What a mess. I'm sorry you're going through this.

Now I cant say that for sure, but I was told by her brother (who does not like what is going on) that there is alot I do not know....he cant say for sure, but he knows there is something else. Then, this morning, I had heard from a mutual friend (who talks to a guy that IS friends with the guy that is after my wife....sheesh!) that the asshole is about to move....my wife is about to move and she talks to him alot.

You need a good lawyer...fast!
Sorry this is happening to you.

Especially with kids in the middle I would be running to the lawyers.

She has only seen him once that you know of. My guess is this has been going on for a while and your just seeing the tip of the iceberg. Very sorry you have to deal with this mess and I really feel for your kids. Start talking to lawyers and find a good one. Ask friends for recommendations and remember don't go cheap on the lawyer a good one is worth his weight in gold.

Wow. Your children are there? That takes things to a whole new level. What she's thinking shouldn't affect them.

I am so very sorry. Get a lawyer and fast. Protect your rights where the kids are concerned. Be kind to yourself. I know it hurts but you will get through this. My prayers are with you.

keep it all about the children. you need to be there for your kids, she is not thinking about them. and God knows who and what this person is capable of.

I am so sorry for you.

Please do contact a lawyer and see how you can stop this.

Dont listen to he said she said, it always gets messed up. You need to ask her directly and tell her your not going to allow it.

Your children have to come first for both of you and she needs to really understand that.

I dont talk to my stbx at all. Unless it has to do with him doing the right thing for the children. Little updates are done by email, but I do call, or go out of my way to see him when he does his stupid things that effect my children.

Good Luck to you with all this. I wish I knew why the f some people are such idiots.

Did any one else notice that this is from December of last year. OK who has been diving back into the past.