Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I am crying as we speak, they are so happy together. They have now moved in to a new apartment and he says if my kids can't draw up their own opinion about his wife then they don't have to come over.
How can someone be so cruel. He has hurt me so bad and I'm trying so hard to get pass this any advice please! This just really hurts!
How can someone be so cruel. He has hurt me so bad and I'm trying so hard to get pass this any advice please! This just really hurts!
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
"There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you, let them walk. I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean, Hang Up the Phone!.
When people can walk away from you, let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody who left.
The Bible says "They came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us." (1 John 2:19)
People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.
LET THEM GO
It doesn't mean that they are a bad person; it just means that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know when peoples' part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead.
You've got to know when it's dead.
You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you something - I've got the gift of good-bye. Its the tenth spiritual gift. I believe in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it.
Stop beggin people to stay.
LET THEM GO....
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Your kids are your legacy.. Focus on their well being for now.
I'm not big on counseling, but it's very beneficial for some people. I would seek this out immediately.
Finally, your husband is a dirt bag to do this to you. I don't mean to be offensive, but leaving you with three kids is about as low as it gets.
Remember, what comes around - goes around.
I am at a loss for words! This hurts me for you as well! I will pray for strength for you, as you will need it for yourself and your children!
Big hugs!
His new wife?
They aren't married yet. You're still his wife at the moment. And he's a cheating bastard.
The kids will draw their own conclusions about your stbx and his mistress.
They will see your strength and remember that you put them first.
Love and light coming your way sweetheart.
You will get through this pain. It will not always hurt this much. And you will be stronger for having gone through this.
I'm praying for you right now, honey.