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I meet a lady over 10 years ago. We married, and for the first 4 years our marriage would be under constant attack. We then separated. The past 6 years we have been on then off again. Once again I feel the pull from her. I feel so week, I love her more than life it's self, I truly believe we are soul mates. The old saying is alive and well "can't live without them, can't live with them". i know the choice is mine, and I accept my part in allowing this to happen, HAS ANYONE ELSE HAD THIS DILEMMA??? What did you do, how did things turn out?
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I watche a show yesterday that talked about the word "soulmate". She talked about the fact that soulmate does not mean forever, it can mean someone who touches and lifts your soul maybe only for a short time. What do you think about that, I am interested.
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Doesn't sound healthy my friend.
For either of you.
have you considered counseling?
Grace,
I think that we have many soulmates, in different forms. I've had several close friends that were a soulmate for a time, and we've grown apart as we've changed and grown in different directions.
I hope to find a romantic soul mate some day. One that I can keep around :)
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I never looked at teh soul mate issue that way. It actually struck a nerve. It is always hardest to look in the mirror and see the real picture, brutal I say just brutal
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