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Just a carzy idea

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I'm not going to do this but I feel like spray painting on the back of her car tonight. "I'm a whore, honk if you want sucked off.
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naw, you would end up paying for it...I have already had to stop my kids from doing similar things...

The only thing you can do is reply to her face with the truth. That is honest and won't cost you your integrity or any more money.
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Nah Rob, Your a decent man! I suspect you'd beat yourself up later for doing it. Stay strong my friend!
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I've gotta agree that it wouldn't be a good thing to do, but I can completely understand the temptation!

I recently gave my stbx a new name (in my mind): Humping Dog.
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It was just one of those crazy moments. I'd never do it. Please don't think less of me for my bad thoughts.
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Rob, in my mind I've done some things that you simply wouldn't believe!
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DONT DO IT ,anger is ok rob, but how you respond to it can be very bad, be the better person and stop the cycle of hurt it took me a long long time to realize that
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LOL! Rob can I go with you and we'll make it a twofer stop at my stbx's OW's car!
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yes i understand the thought and anger is OK. how you respond to it can be bad though so just keep your head up and dont stoop to that
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Rob I've never think less of you b/c of your thoughts, believe me, many of us have had similar thoughts too.
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I don't think less of you either, especially with some of the things I've thought about doing!
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If most of us would admit to what we thought of our ex's and doing, rob's idea looks pretty much the same. They're just thoughts though remember. I'll go with you two...rob and 31
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Rob & 31yrs,
Can you pick me up on the way too? lol.
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Hey, Rob we could start a whole new line of bumper stickers! lol
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I thought about keying his truck and scratching my name on the leather seats! I think there's a song like that! Everyone has the thoughts I think, some are just more mature and don't act on them.
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Why would anyone think Less of You? You expressed that you Weren't going to do it...not that you had already Done it...and, if you had-well, some of us would have laughed and offered to help raise bail ;-)

Confession-first divorce, he got MY car, we were in mandated counciling session, he was Driving MY CAR...He turned to me and said, "I never loved you, but you were a Popular girl, and I wanted to bring you down."

yeah, he really said that to me.

I had a 32ounce diet coke. It was full, session just started, and that was the opener.

I poured it over his head.

Ever hear the phrase, "Seeing Red"??? I literally did, and still remember it...

I DID go out to MY CAR THAT THE COURT GAVE HIM...I Keyed F****R on the Door as big as I could.

Yeah, did I get in trouble...They docked me for that one Big Time, and stamped Anger Issues on our File.

Anyone want to think Less of Me-go right ahead.
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