I have been divorced for almost 2 years and I am engaged to be married in August. My ex has been remarried for almost a year. We have a 3 1/2 yr. old son together and still keep in contact (almost daily) to discuss him. My fiance is extremely jealous of this. He gets upset with me often saying that I still act like I'm married because I talk to my ex about our son. He's really the only reason that we still talk. We have both moved on, but i can't get my fiance to see this. My parents divorced when I was 12 and my sister was 5. It was hard on both of us. We constatnly had to watch what we said infront of our stepmother, so she wouldn't get upset with us or our dad. I don't want my son to feel this way! I won't put up with it. I keep telling my fiance this and asking him what he expects me to do, since there will be decisions that my ex and I have to make together. What should I do? HELP???
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