
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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"Words" can so totally shut you down ,they can annialate you .They can be twisted and turned and used to abuse as painfully as any action,if not more so.That is why I guess a relationship needs action as well as words to succeed .Its easy to say I love you but physically show you don't.
What happens to you when words are used to confuse and destroy you but are so lovingly expressed..........NO WORDS
What happens to you when words are used to confuse and destroy you but are so lovingly expressed..........NO WORDS
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"Thats ok honey... its not your fault you don't know how to explain yourself... you're just not as educated as me... just let me do the talking.. that way you won't embarrass either of us."
said real sweet and kind, but ultimately it cuts the recipient down and makes the recipient feel unworthy or less than the other.
While I love hearing sentiments it means nothing without the backing of the actions that come along with them.
I have always stood by, "Actions Speak louder then words."
If people had to pay for the words they speak, they would choose their words more wisely and say only what they mean and mean what they say.
Toad said something similar to this in a song:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lRJfR_FFK3o
I silent die within as the words roll from their lips. How can this person cut me so lovingly?! You have to decide to either let their words totally destroy you or use them as a means for making something better.
During our divorce he has used words like "amicable", "friendly", "cooperate", but his actions have been anything but.
Perhaps I should loan him a dictionary so he can find new words.