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Its Friday...I need help vomiting

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Im trying so hard to get over him but its friday the day he usually picks me up and omg im going nuts. I lied to him yesterday telling him i ws going to s.c for a week he then had the nerv to ask why did u decide to go there. Im luck whatever. then i talk to him last night wanted to say good bye to make it look good and we talked for a bit laughed he told me that he still hasnt seen the "girl" since friday they still just email i said are u taking her to the movies he said maybe, and then said no probably not. I dont know but whats really confusing is i get a call at 6 am asking if im ok and hows the ride. I mean u broke up with me why are u all of a sudden doing this..
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all about control. he has two hands and wants both of them in cookie jars.

get it over with cut him off tell him not to call you and move on (hard as it is)

he is playing with your emotions. NOT FAIR!!!
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he could be regretting his decision. Don't ask him yet but see if he carries on doing this. If after a while he still is then ask him why. But remember that you deserve to be treated well, and if you feel he's playing with you, then let him go. is this helpful?x
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I hearken back to my college drinking days and recall sticking two fingers down my throat was most effective
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your going to have to decide it this is the way you want to be treated. your responsible for setting your boundries. if someone is totally interested in you and wants to be with you, there would be talk of no other woman. read my post ACCEPTING LOVE. i know your hurting, but you don't deserve to be treated like this.
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