I am still not crying about my stbx. Our divorce is final on Jan21 which is the same day we were married. Most people tell me that is an omen that it really wasn't meant to be. I haven't cried about him in 3 weeks now. I wake up thinking of other things and have stopped obsessing on him. Is this normal to be O.K. this soon? We really didn't live together the whole marriage it was long distance. I have also had no contact with him and he did call me Saturday. I never answered and never returned his call. I don't even want to call him and I don't want to talk to him, However I still wonder when he will call me and wonder what he will say. I wonder but I don't cry over him anymore. Am I getting over it? I think I am over it already I really do
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