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It's over.

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As of about 10:30 this morning, I am divorced. That's it. Done. Finis. Le Fin. It's been a long road, but I made it through. Thanks to everyone on here for your support. DS has been a huge help, and all of the people I have met on here have been great.

Thanks All!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Well,
congratulations on having made it this far.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I hope you are wearing green!

: )
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm glad this part of your transition is over.

And here's to the next part being better than you imagined.
deleted_user
deleted_user
So how do you feel? A little bit sad and alittle bit relieved, or just one or the other, or none of the above. I've been wondering how other people feel when it's finally done.

I felt relieves and sort of shell shocked. It seemed surreal to me, but I had a long marriage.

What's up with wearing green?
deleted_user
deleted_user
So may I ask you a question? Now that the paper work is final and done, Do you still feel the way you did before the paer work? what I am asking do you still feel all the emotions?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Way to go Dude! Welcome to the start of your new life. Enjoy!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I send you congratulations and condolenses! I know what you are going through and will continue to hope and pray for you to move forward in your new life!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Oddly enough, at this point I feel more relieved. I have some excellent support from friends and family. And this has been a long time coming. I have had the time to mourn the relationship, there are some moments that are touch and go, but it's for the most part a relief.

It helps that my dad is a retired prosecuting attorney - so I knew like everyone in the court room. I am so used to watching the legal process, that this really didn't affect me as much as I think court does for most people. At any rate, when i got out of court, my dad was outside because he had some business to take care of, so he thought he would stop to see how I was doing. That helped. At any rate, it hasn't been too bad today, save a few moments. Thanks all for your support!
CanadianRose
CanadianRose
Boutros... ((((HUGS))))

No happiness I know...just a bit of numbness and relief... been there.

Here's another ((((HUG)))) for the road babe.
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