It seems like everytime I open my mouth today I say something wrong.I try to choose my words carefully so as not to hurt anyone. Why is it that communication is so difficult? Why is it when you NEED to talk about something important,the other person shuts down or acts like a 5 year old? I mean I understand that the person is incapable of communicating,but can't they learn? It's not just my stbx I'm talking about. I was never good at expressing how I feel with words,but I can draw it.Thru the years of therapy I am more aware of my own feelings and needs and how to express them. So I know it can be learned. I use to think my feelings would make me evaporate they were so intense,but I found out that is not true. Why don't ppl want to communicate is beyond me...I think there would be less problems if ppl would realize that communication is key to live together . I just don't understand why someone wouldn't want to learn to communicate.Just venting.Thanks
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