Yesterday I told my husband we are officially getting a divorce. He has been going back and forth as to whether he wants to be married to me any longer. Then he tells me yesterday that he thinks he is so unhappy with me that he is having physical sickness. That topped me over the edge. I have never heard that somebody is so repulsed by me that it makes him physically sick so I told him we are done. He then tells me he doesn't want a divorce, but doesn't know what is wrong with him and doesn't want to lose me from his life. I'm sooooo tired of the wishy washy decisions and mood swings. It's time for me to have a normal happy life without wondering everyday if today my husband loves me or I make him sick. It's almost a relief, but at the same time I still love him very much and I don't want this divorce, but I'm so unhappy worring about him all the time that it's starting to affect my life. His thought process is we get a divorce and then when he works out whatever his problem is then he will come find me and we can try it again. He doesn't understand that this is NOT an option and that divorce is final. I wish this was easier for him to understand he can't mess with my emotions because he is so unsure.
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