
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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About 3 hours ago, my husband said that it is over. He moved in with his parents 3 weeks ago. My mom came and got our 2 girls (6 & 9) before we met to talk today and I can't get a hold of myself so that I can go and pick them up. He doesn't want to go get any help. He says he has done everything that I ever asked of him and he can't give any more. I told him that letting me know that he wasn't happy a year ago would have been nice to know so that we could have gotten help or made some changes. Today we had to meet to make a schedule for our girls for the month. I don't know how I will get through this. I NEVER thought that this would happen to me. We made a committment to each other and to GOD. He says he will just ask God for forgiveness. How do I get through this?
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When you're wounded, it is important to conserve your energy and spend it on the things that matter the most to you. When you feel lucid, come up with the short list and try to spend your time on those priorities. Everything else can wait for a while.
And you mostly get through these types of things by allowing yourself to feel whatever you have to...and, most important, by being brave. You just have to be brave sometimes to get up and keep putting one foot in front of the other.
Terrier lecture over. So sorry for you and the family but let me be the first to say I am optimistic about your future. Do your best to relax and lean on whoever you need to.
Peace.