
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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I seen the ex and his new girlfriend for the first time last night. It was so awful and all I can do now is replay it over and over in my mind. I felt so numb and still do. My heart keeps beating faster I feel sick to the stomach and my whole body feels like its on fire. I dont know why I feel this bad I already knew he was seeing her but it felt like a knfe to the heart. I wish I knew why he likes her and not me? The worst thing is when I was in bed last night the tinest part of me wished I wouldnt wake up because it would be so much easier...
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Just think too,,,,you got rid of your trash, and it may hurt to see him with her, but she will be the next one hurt in the cycle.
I had to go throught that also. Even though it was with an ex b/f, it still hurt like the dickens. The problem that I had was that he called my son the night before and let him know that he would be there. It was at a game and the arena was big. He sat on the other side which was great but just knowing he was there was hurtful. He even came up to where I was sitting with my mother and he spoke to my mother. I sat there not able to move or breathe. All I can say is that the next day he received an email from me letting him know exactly how he made me feel (which was not very nice). It does get better with time and I avoid my ex with everything I have. Be strong and show him that he is nothing to you.
I don't know how you can survive that. A few weeks ago, my STBX had a 'date' with an internet friend. She actually asked me to fix the printer on the computer so that she print directions to the rendezvous (I felt pretty dumb). She promised it was just for dinner and talking, and apparently it was, she was back before midnight. Either way, I thought I was going to drop dead that night from the combination of being scared (for her), betrayed, jealous etc. I couldn't breathe, one minute wondering whether I was going to a get a call from the cops that she was beaten by an internet predator and the next wanting to find the guy and beat him. I asked her never to do that again while we are still living together and she agreed (at least for now!). I can't imagine the pain you are going through, you are a stronger guy than me.