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oh so sorry dear. Not looking forward to that day

Are you ok?

my heart goes out to you. Don't know what I am going to do when that day comes. Being from the south I have be taught to smile and hold my head high. Guess I just hope the southern breeding take over and get me through it. Hope I am able to smile walk over to them and---shake her hand and introduce myself. Wish me luck.

yeah...i'm ok. although...i couldn't look at him or at her. i know her. but i guess i'll have to re-introduce myself to her. it was uncomfortable to say the least.

I'm dreading the day this happens to me. I probably won't be able to look at them either.

I'm so sorry, I don't know what else to say.

I know the pain, even though I thought I was ok with her and him. When I actually saw them holding hand and her kissing him on the neck, I wanted to throw up.......I KNOW she was turning it on to rub it in. I have a customer that is totally hot and she offered to go to court with me as my girl friend, maybe I should have taken her up on it. (smile)

oh i dread that day, when it comes... luckily his OW is in another state so there is almost no chance of running into them. has been a different story in the past. OUCH!!!
I'm glad you're ok, it takes class to show it doesn't bother you...remember that! (even if it does, don't show them!!) HUGS!

as you say kc, it was the day you had been dreading... The next time I think the thing to do is to take a deep breath, hold your head high on walk over, say hello, and shake her hand and re-introduce yourself... They/he will not see that one coming, it will leave them dazed, and HIM humble. Maybe it will also then get HIM off your back. Good luck, keep strong... Better things are just around the corner for you...

Ack!

Although my wife had told me she had decided we were getting divorced about 3 weeks earlier, I found out the real reason she had made that decision when I walked into the waiting room at a hospital, where my youngest was getting her tonsils out. I came much earlier than we had arranged. She was there with the OM, holding hands and kissing him.

I had no idea she was in a romantic relationship until that moment. One of the single worst moments of my life, actually.

I had to sit there for a moment with them until the nurse said my daughter was out of surgery, and one person could go in and wait with her. My STBX got up to go in, realized that she was about to leave me alone with the OM, and then suggested I go in instead.

She moved into his apartment about two weeks later.

Matt, that's terrible! I can't even imagine how awful that must've been for you.

What would be even weirder would be you staying in solitary confinement to avoid seeing them. The only thing to fear is ...... yeah, that cliche. Get out there and cry your eyes out, whatever it takes, but off your butt and out into the world. If you run into them, get a straw, roll up a tiny ball of paper, and nail them both with a tiny spitball.

Harmless but humiliating.

Good luck.

The OWs seem to like to rub it in too. I am sorry that you will have to face this again. Keep you cool. Try to avoid them. Sorry, sorry,sorry.

OMG! I'm soooooo sorry! I can't imagine what that'll be like!!! I agree with everyone else....take the high road. Fake it, 'til you make it! Do something absolutely fabulous for yourself today. Indulge in a manicure, buy a fabulous sexy dress and go out with some friends....don't let this get you down! BIIIIG HUG!