He got on drugs and would not get off of them for many years. I finally left him in 2004 with the kids. He went to Jail for being under the influence of Methamphetamines. I filed for divorce last year because he was using again. I could not take anymore. During his drug use he met someone to keep him company. She moved into the house shortly after that. He would lie to me about her for over a year! He would come to my house spend time with me and the kids then go back home to her and pretend he never saw us. I would stop by his house and she would hide in the closet until I left. He never said a thing. THis went on for a long time. I found out about her and filed for my divorce. THis is not who I married! I have been divorced since May 2007. He has since gotten his life together after losing the house, losing his wife and kids and his sanity. He is in rehab forced by the authorities, not on his own good will. Now he wants back in to our lives. He wants me back and wants to work on our family. Is this the craziest thing you have ever heard of? I don't want to ever deal with his crap again. Someone please smack me so I can wake up from this nightmare! Anyone else with the similar problem? how do you deal?
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